2/14 – 2/20/11

“我今日所吩咐你的话都要记在心上也要殷勤教训你的儿女。无论你坐在家里,行在路上,躺下,起来,都要谈论 。”

( 申命记 6:6-7)

These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)

 

“趁有指望,管教你的儿子;你的心不可任他死亡.” (箴言19:18)

Discipline your children, for in that there is hope; do not be a willing party to their death. (Proverbs 19:18)

 

“教养孩童,使他走当行的道,就是到老他也不偏离。” (箴言 22:6)

Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it. (Proverb 22:6)

 

默想祷告: 兒子上周日参加教会外展活动, 去附近一家收容所, 与其他弟兄姊妹把煮好的飯菜带去, 一同服务无家可歸的人, 到晚上十奌结束。改天一早又上班上课, 身心疲累, 但他內心卻很喜乐。这不是我家教導有方, 而是他愿意学習耶稣的榜樣, 按神话语去做而已。最近我讀到「中国虎妈」一文所提出中美教育优劣比较, 谁好谁坏的时候, 我感觉各有利敝。但观察中我发现「中国虎妈」是现今中国家庭教育的普遍模式, 就是拚命要打造出文武俱全, 学业出類拔萃的兒女, 希望在任何激烈的競爭环境中能打败对手。然而在情感智高 (EQ), 德育和属灵層面上的教導, 父母卻往往交了白卷。很多孩子无法发挥自已真正的理想, 常常在高压下生活, 因为他们跳不出父母过高期望的围墙, 也渐渐鄙夷父母自私功利的思想, 因此親子关系总是很紧张。连基督徒父母也不例如, 跟著世界路線走, 结果兒女虽然学业事业有成, 但离开神卻越来越遠, 親子也沒有享受到和谐相爱的关系。中国在世界舞台上好像甚么事情都想争强, 但精神世界还是一片混乱, 唯有認识遵行神的话和真理, 中国才会成为世界伟大的强国。 求神的灵光照, 以神的大爱填滿中国人心灵的缺欠, 讓我们下一代蒙神祝福, 奉主耶稣圣名祷告, 阿们。(陈炽弟兄分享)

 

Meditation & Prayer: My son helped out at a homeless shelter with a group of Christians on weekend, serving food for the needy families. It was a tiresome day and came back late at night, slept a few hours and went to work & school in the next morning. He did it because Jesus’ love motivates him and God’s word compels him. But when I read a recent article “Chinese Tiger Mom” debate on Chinese vs. American educational system (pros & cons), I was flabbergasted by the fact that “Tiger Mom” indeed evolves as a universal paradigm for Chinese families to educate our next generation. The price is very high apparently, both on the children & parents, as either party’s relationship may crack under intense pressure. I observe Chinese children excel in academics, but show awkwardness and under-development in EQ & spiritual dimensions. Christian families are no exemptions when we willingly conform ourselves to secular values, putting our relationships with God & children at great risk. As China desires to be the game player, trying to dominate every area on the global theatre, the nation is still lagging far behind in spiritual dominion. May the Lord’s grace shine upon this land; and Christ’s immense love fill up the void in the hearts of our people, in Jesus holy name we pray, amen. (Brother Mike Chan sharing)

 

「中国虎妈」一文下载 Link

http://www.worldjournal.com/view/aChinanews/11172912/article-%E4%B8%AD%E5%9C%8B%E3%80%8C%E8%99%8E%E5%AA%BD%E3%80%8D%E7%82%BA%E4%BD%95%E8%81%B2%E9%9C%87%E7%BE%8E%E5%9C%8B%EF%BC%9F?instance=chsoft

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